Turning forty years old could be the best experience of your life! This isn’t your typical list of things to do for your 40th birthday. These ideas will show you how to celebrate your 40th birthday in meaningful, fun ways and create memories that will last the rest of your life.
Even though this isn’t your typical list of ideas for your 40th birthday, I have to share the Sterling Silver “Live The Life You Love” Pendant Necklace. The best birthday gift you can give yourself is a visual reminder or symbol to “learn from yesterday, live for today, and hope for tomorrow.” What better gift could you give yourself, than to live in the moment and cherish every second you have?
Here’s a great thing to do for your 40th birthday – it’s a tip from Alice Walker: “Begin a circle of women. Meet regularly. Don’t have an agenda. Get together simply to Be together. Eat, drink, be merry. Dance if you feel like it. Lie about on cushions. Tell stories. Share secrets. Teach each other how to garden, how to build fires. But definitely do not ‘plan’ what you are going to discuss or do. Whatever work needs to be done will be done without your trying to make it happen.”
If you want to spend your fortieth birthday with your girlfriends, read 6 Tips for Planning a Goddess Party.
One of the best 40th birthday ideas is to relax into your female friendships. I have two close friends – not counting my husband – and I’d feel lost in this world without them. If you don’t have friends to celebrate your 4oth birthday with, make meaningful friendships your goal this year.
Creative Ways to Spend Your 40th Birthday
These ideas for celebrating your fortieth birthday are more emotional than practical. I’m not celebrating my 40th birthday by throwing a big birthday bash, taking an exotic vacation (though I just got back from a two week trip to Jamaica!), or buying myself a Kindle Fire with WiFi (though everyone seems to love them! If you want to celebrate your fortieth birthday by giving yourself a birthday Kindle, I am all for it. I hear they’re amazing).
These 40th birthday ideas are about being kind and gentle to yourself, and making your life more meaningful. I turned 40 three years ago, and look forward to turning 44 in 2014!
Accept what you can’t change in your life
My husband and I can’t have kids, and I don’t want to try IVF. Neither of us are keen on adoption. Now that I’m closer to 45 than 40, I’ve begun to accept that it’ll just be the two of us. We’re our family. For the past four years, I hoped for a miracle…but I’m letting go of it. It’s sort of bittersweet, to accept and even embrace this part of my life. Surrender. This may not be the most exciting 40th birthday idea, but it will change your life.
One of the most meaningful things to do on your 40th birthday is to accept your present moment as if you’d chosen it. That’s one of Eckhart Tolle’s words of wisdom, from The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment. Are you unhappy or scared to turn forty? Acceptance brings peace.
Try new ways to move your 40 year old body
If you don’t feel fit or fabulous as you approach 40, try a new exercise routine. The Zumba Fitness Exhilarate Body Shaping System DVD is an awesome, fun, exciting way to burn calories at home. It’s like a rocking dance fitness party, but you won’t be worried about what people think of how you dance because you’ll be in the comfort of your own home! It includes over 30 dance styles from around the world, including merengue, salsa, reggaeton, calypso, cumbia and hip hop. The set also includes maraca-like Zumba Toning Sticks.
Try something absolutely crazy on your 40th birthday
Here’s a reader’s 40th birthday idea: “I’m going to spend my 40th birthday racing exotic cars in Vegas, then flying to Mexico for a week, lying on the beach, golfing on perfect turf, going to see Mayan ruins, racing dune buggies in the sand, scuba diving, and chasing around my 26 year old wife. Forty is not old….you’re as young as you feel. IF you wanna go get all responsible for your 40th birthday….go ahead…..or you can embrace the fact that you’ve only lived 1/3 of your adult life and have plenty more to go!”
If travel is your dream your 40th birthday, read The Best Time to Book Airline Tickets.
Give yourself meaningful 40th birthday gifts
Color Me Happy: 100 Coloring Templates That Will Make You Smile (A Zen Coloring Book) is one of my 45th birthday gifts to myself. I love coloring with my Little Sister, and I want to bring more vibrant zen-like experiences into my life.
If you’re a practical woman, a creative thing to do for your 40th birthday might be to decluttering and organize your home. If you’re more dreamy than practical, then decluttering and organizing aren’t creative things to do on your fortieth birthday – they can wait until the day after you turn forty . But, getting organized will help you feel better about being in your forties.
Think about how you want to spend your next 50 birthdays
Now that I’m in my forties, I’m starting to put money away for my retirement. Better late than never! Every time I put $500 or $1,000 into my RRSPs, I visualize my future vacations. I used to think putting money away for retirement was a meaningless chore, but now I see it as taking care of my future self. Same with decluttering and spending my time the way I want. I feel good when I’m surrounded by space and simplicity, and when I choose to do things I love.
So, for me the thing to do on my 40th birthday(s) is to take good care of my future, my environment, the people I love, and my emotional and physical health. Now that I’m 43, I’m finally learning how to set myself up for success and happiness. Those are my little birthday gifts and tips to myself.
How will you pamper yourself on your 40th birthday? Read 40th Birthday Gifts for Women.
Take music lessons – or join a band or orchestra
If you’ve always wanted to learn how to play the guitar – or any musical instrument – now’s the time to pursue your dreams! The Pink Full Size Thinline Acoustic Electric Guitar With Free Gig Bag Case and Picks is a great place to start.
I played the flute in high school, and have always wanted to re-learn it. I loved the rehearsals, concerts, and feeling of being part of an orchestra! So I bought myself a flute a few weeks ago, and am working my way through a self-instruction beginners flute book. It feels so good to play, to learn and practice, to hear my musical skills improving. It’s also very healthy to learn to play a musical instrument! For me, joining a band is one of the most meaningful things to do when I turned 40. What about you? What have you wanted to do since high school, but haven’t gotten around to it? It’s time, my friend.
Refuse to be your own biggest critic
I’m tired of beating myself up for saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, and making mistakes. I’m tired of criticizing myself! What happened yesterday – and 10 years ago, 20 years ago – is done. It’s over. Instead of flagellating myself for my mistakes, I will focus on freedom and forgiveness. Instead of wishing certain people were in my life, I’m willing to let go of the past. I’ve done a lot of things right, and made a lot of people feel good about themselves. I’ve helped people, and cheered people up. I’ve been a good friend to some people. That’s the best 40th birthday idea: focus on what you do right and what you do well.
Learning how to accept yourself is one of the best ways to celebrate turning 40.
March to your own drum for your 40th birthday
I work at Big Brothers Vancouver, and am probably the oldest Mentoring Coordinator there – the rest of them are in their 20s. They’re super nice, but I’m old enough to be their mother. Some of our work activities and events highlight how old I am. For instance, we have a big bowling afternoon coming up, and we all have to dress up in Fiesta costumes. I can’t think of anything worse – I’m a quiet, introverted, introspective writer. The thought of bowling in a Mexican or Fiesta costume with in a loud bowling alley with lots of young people makes me want to crawl under my bed with my dog. So, my 40th birthday gift to myself is not to go. I’ll be one of the only employees who doesn’t attend – it’s a fundraising event, no less. I’ll donate money, but I don’t want to bowl. I feel like I’ve earned the right to give myself permission not to attend events that make me feel tired and unhappy.
I’m turning 45 tomorrow, and I’m celebrating ALL my birthdays in my forties by being kind to myself, even if it upsets other people, even if it sets me apart from the crowd. Sometimes the best 40th birthday ideas last all year long.
If you want to find artistic things to do on your 40th birthday, read 12 Gifts for Artists – Inspired by Picasso.
What about you – how will you celebrate turning forty? Do you have any ideas for things to do for your 40th birthday?